Don’t Feel Like You Need To Hide Because You Have Depression

 

 

If you fall into a depression due to a medical condition, did you know you can make that condition worsen by dwelling on it? It is a double edged sword. Learn below how to shake yourself out of depression due to being diagnosed with a medical condition that is horrifying, contagious or even life threatening.

If you have medical depression you should anticipate that many people won’t be able to understand it. Most people think that depression is just like being really sad but true sufferers know that this is not the truth. If people say things like “just chin up” to you, try to realize that they mean the best and just ignore it.

Have realistic expectations. Often depressed people fixate on some unrealistic goal that they believe will cure their depression. For some it is money, for others it may be longing for an idealistic Mr. or Miss. “Right” to spend the rest of their life with. While having a goal is good, keep it realistic. Instead of being unhappy with your current job and longing to win the lottery, take college courses or a vocational program to increase your income potential. If you are lonely, get out and get involved with activities you enjoy. Even if you don’t meet someone, you will have fun; and if you do meet someone, they are much more likely to have similar interests to you unlike a random stranger in a bar.

If you are on medication to combat depression, it is still very important that you see a therapist. Talking to a trained professional will be able to help you understand your own thoughts much better than just thinking can do. Even if you have good friends, they cannot take the place of a counselor.

The number 1, best way to conquer depression is to take action. Decide what your problem is, how you can alleviate it, and start taking action to make your life better. Taking action will occupy your mind, which in turn will prevent you from dwelling on negative thoughts. As you start to see tangible results from the actions you are taking, you will build positive self-esteem and begin to feel better about yourself.

Becoming interested in the arts is a great way to help you beat your depression. If you like paintings or sculpture be sure to schedule lots of visits to local museums. Likewise if you like music be sure to visit as many concerts and shows as you are able to.

Wear clothing that makes you feel happy. Your clothing should be a reflection of the mood you wish to be in, not the mood you are currently in. Wear something colorful and fun that will make you smile when you look at it. Pick out your favorite outfit, even if it is formal, and wear it around the house to try to boost your spirits.

No matter what you have been diagnosed with, remember that depression can make it seem worse. Use the above advise to help you deal with your depression. How you live your life can affect those who love you and keeping your depression in check may not reverse your condition yet you can live the rest of your days with quality rather than under a cloud of unhappiness.