Lots of new moms must contend with postpartum depression. Even when life should be good, you will feel down. Many factors can cause depression. In this article, we will discuss the signs and symptoms of depression.
One way to deal with depression is to “fake it till you make it”. This means to act, walk, talk, and eat as if you were not depressed. If nothing else, faking it will mean that other things in your life are not neglected while you are depressed. At best, the behaviors will help re-route your brain and actually help cure your depression.
Run yourself a soothing bath if you feel depression taking hold. Soaking in the tub while reading, listening to music, or even resting your eyes will soothe the body and spirit. Warm water will help to relax you even more, as the soothing temperatures will ease your muscles as well.
It is important not to take your frustrations out on those around you when you have depression. Many times, people are just so unhappy that they bring others around them down as well by the way they treat them. Instead, let your loved ones know how much you appreicate their support.
If you are mildly depressed or think that you “have the blues” the worst thing you can do is sit at home and think about it. Get out there and have some fun. Find a group to join or a new activity that seems interesting to you.
Get a hobby. One of the most common reasons people develop depression is because they do not have enough interests to stay busy. Finding a hobby and developing an interest can help you to realize that you are good at something, and that others enjoy the same hobby that you do.
Refrain from any negative thoughts, and be sure and write then down when they do come into your mind. In this way, you can re-examine just why you have these thoughts, how they make you feel, and how to substitute these distorted thoughts with positive, happy ones. Only when you understand your negative thought patterns can you rediscover positive thinking.
Develop and practice effective relaxation exercises or practices. Whether lying in a tub that is filled with aromatic beads or using Yoga to relax your mind, you want to keep a clear head and refrain from discomfort in order to avoid a depressed mood. With relaxation comes enlightenment and a much healthier mood.
Understand your mind. Depression is not a sign of insanity, rather it means something is not right. Depression is just a sign that something in your life is unbalanced. It could be something in yourself, your environment, or may include both. Knowing you are not crazy can really help you feel more positive about your life.
Clearly, many new mothers are affected by post-partum depression. Although it may be hard for a new mother to admit to feelings more serious than
“baby blues”, the condition is serious and needs immediate attention. This article can help you fight this issue and become happy again.